"based on this comment i hereby rescend [sic] my promise not to mock you anymore. fuckkkkk you dude." - armchairshrink
What this means for the home-viewing audience is that acs's promise to not mock me anymore lasted until the next major argument over a point of liberal dogma that I took contention with. Which she only missed because she was out of town. Which means that her promise was essentially completely worthless. Anyone who is surprised by this is clearly not paying attention.
The problem for acs is that she wrote this:
"For my part, this has completely stopped being fun for me and I don't think it will be again. I hate your behavior, I hate the way you talk to people and treat people online - what you interpret as people gleefully cheering your breakdown or whatever is often people - or I'm speaking for myself here, but in my case - someone who finds you enraging and assholish and just flat out MEAN because once you've decided someone is "bad" nothing is off limits to you in terms of how you will try to make them feel your anger. I hate that behavior and honestly, you know, half of my issue with you is how much the way you think and act resembles someone who hurt me very badly and that's my own shit and I'll own it and cop to it. I probably wouldn't have ever targeted you as much as I did if it wasn't for that. But me targeting you isn't fixing my past and regardless of how much I hate the way you behave, it's not going to make you change your behavior, all it's going to do is make you feel really, really bad and I'm done thinking that's a just reward for the bullshit you pull online because I believe you when you say how bad this makes you feel. That doesn't mean that I'm taking *responsibility* for your feelings, though, just for my own. I don't think anyone, regardless of who they are or what shit they pull, should feel as bad as you say you feel, certainly not based on what is supposed to be an entertaining and shallow internet sparring match.
"So you've "won" with regards to me in the sense that you've convinced me that me snarking you isn't something I'm going to do anymore. That said, I don't think I'm *capable* of interacting with you without being snarky. So don't bait me, don't try to engage me, and I won't do it to you, I won't post about you or interact with you either. I'm not interesting in engaging in critical debate about feminism with you, and I doubt any of your "detractors" are either, so you might want to keep that in mind if you do keep posting in places where we hang out online, which I still think is an obviously bad idea because I don't think you have the emotional resources to do so without feeling badly about yourself."
The problem that armchairshrink faces is that by writing the above, she's completely nullified her power to hurt me. Because everytime she comes at me, I'll just remind myself that she's not talking about me, she's talking about her ex, about herself.
I'd also like to point out that acs saying "someone who finds you enraging and assholish and just flat out MEAN because once you've decided someone is "bad" nothing is off limits to you in terms of how you will try to make them feel your anger" is about the most hypocritical statement ever posted on the internet. I mean we're talking about someone who waged a campaign to smear me as a potential or possible rapist because she decided I was "bad." She taught me lessons in how nothing is off limits.
- Current Mood: amused